Welcome to the Official Right Use of Will Website
 The first book in the series of books shown below explains what Freewill really means and gives the underlying principles of freeing and evolving our Will along with some other information. The rest of the series of books, among other things, tells an interweaving, lengthy story to help access old and buried belief systems which have impaired the evolution of our Freewill. If you want to read the books in this series, it is important to read them in order.
The new book, Feelings Matter, gives scientific information that has validated the importance of free expression of our Will and the importance of feeling that our expression is received. It also explains how the increasingly widespread interference with our early attempts to express and feel received have been resulting in internal, physical imbalances in the development of our brains and nervous systems. Lack of knowledge and widespread conditioning to the contrary have been generationally increasing the imbalances in our brains and nervous systems until the qualities that make us human have become imperiled. Even though there have been efforts to return to our more natural ways, 95% of births in the United States are traumatic, 65% highly traumatic. This can have lifelong impact on our brains and nervous systems; if not us, then those around us. Feelings Matter also contains information on what we can do about it now and includes a resource section. I have done my best to make this science readable and, I hope, interesting, because I believe it to be very important.
Have you noticed how often Mind, Body and Spirit are mentioned? Have you wondered where Heart and Will fit in? Have you thought very much about Freewill and what that concept really means? Do you even know for sure what your Will is? Maybe you only know about Will from the Lord’s prayer, “not my Will, but Thy Will be done.” Or, you may have been seeking other spiritual solace and guidance which may be saying basically the same thing, but as desirelessness and letting happen to you whatever is going to happen.
Maybe you don’t think about your Will, but you may notice yourself feeling overridden. If you let yourself notice, you may feel overridden much, or most, of the time by relationships, family, job and the many restrictions this present system of living has put on our personal freedom. You may have been thinking that this is the way it’s supposed to be. Maybe you have thought of this as being loving to let others have their way. But what about ourselves, and what can we do about it anyway?
Many have said that selflessness is a good thing as though love of self is a bad thing. Many of us may not have noticed the innate contradictions in this. It has been often said ‘we are all one’ and ‘we are all part of God.’ So where does the self fit in, and what is our full self? Isn’t it everything, which would mean that we need to include, rather than lose, ourselves? What if there is nothing without self because, among other things, no one can be the self of another.
There is nothing wrong with “Let go and let it flow,” when it also includes our self. Our Will is our feelings about everything, and our feelings about everything express as our intuition, emotion and desire and also as our receptivity. This is our Will. Our Will is the feminine aspect of our being, and so how do we want to treat the feminine within us and without?
Acceptance and encouragement for our intuition can give us much more of the developed inner-guidance we need. Desire and emotion can give us the passion to do things and the ability to feel what we experience. Their free-flow allows our receptive centers to be open. When these qualities of our Will are suppressed, we can feel rather flat-line or dead inside and become like slaves, driven along either by the demands and expectations of others or our own expectations and the insistence of our mind. We may be just as restrictive toward ourselves as we perceive our outer reality to be.
There are many books that have talked about emotions; how to manage, orchestrate, manipulate and control emotions, but have not demonstrated a deep understanding of emotions or addressed them as an important aspect of our Will. This relationship with the expression of our Will makes thoughts dominant as though emotions have little or nothing to offer our perceptions. Our Will may receive guidance from our mind, but do we want internal or external dictatorship? Control, even in the name of “positive thinking.” is not the answer.
Balance is what has been lacking and balance is what is so needed. We cannot find true balance when we exercise control because control is suppressive and suppression is indicative of conditional love. To find true balance is to find true Heart which is a heart of unconditional love. This true balance needs to come from allowing our suppressed aspects to have the evolutionary process they need to come into alignment without the use of force, pressure, manipulation or control.
When our Wills are not free, there is reduced Heart presence on Earth. Many things then feel heartless. Without getting to know our emotional body and evolving it, we can be manipulated through our emotions. We can be easily led or misled. If our emotional body is seriously shut down, we can do anything, no matter how abhorrent, just because we can.
Have you ever thought that emotions have a role to play in our lives that has been overlooked? Do you believe that all emotions stem from the mind? What about gut feelings? Have you noticed how heavily judged against emotions have been, especially the "negative" emotions? Isn’t this conditional love toward a part of ourselves? What if emotions have an evolutionary path that can lead to a deep kind of inner knowing and freedom?
To free our Will, we need to know where we are not free, not only outwardly, but also where we have imprisoned ourselves inwardly. Whether it is lost from our consciousness or not, within us is the micro of the outer predicament. This sounds obvious, yet many people have been suppressing emotions they have not thought were acceptable without realizing the role these denials have been playing. A prominent example of this being how often has it been said, “Do you choose love or fear?”
Why not choose both? Why not bring fear within love, help it and find out what contributions it has to offer?
Our emotions need space for their own process of evolving and becoming a real part of the rest of our consciousness. The path is simple really, except for the resistance we may meet if we don't do this in a private place until we have enough understanding, discernment and self-acceptance to integrate more emotional expression into our outer life.
Right Use of Will is not holding self back or pushing self forward; it is about finding balance, full self-acceptance and letting ourselves be free within. Since our outer reality matches our inner reality, the question becomes where have our denied and suppressed emotions gone and what role are they playing on our planet right now?
I hope you will find the path of Freewill, freeing your Will, an important part of your consciousness evolution.
Ceanne DeRohan
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